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Sometimes you do say it best... when you say nothing at all
Muhammad bin Muhammad bin al-Husayn al-Khatibi al-Balkhi al-Bakri was a 13th century Persian Afghan poet, philosopher, and Sufi mystic....
allthenoons
Dec 22, 20215 min read
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I second that emotion - why artificial emotional intelligence should worry us
Tech companies are developing artificial intelligence programs to read our emotions. Actually, they’ve already developed such programs...
allthenoons
Nov 30, 20217 min read
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Blame it on me (is therapy just an excuse for a moan?)
we counted all our reasons excuses that we made we found ourselves some treasure and threw it all away George Ezra and Joel Pott There is...
allthenoons
Aug 19, 20218 min read
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Gaslighting - what it is and what it isn't
It's a word that's in the news every week; almost every day. It is used as shorthand to condemn behaviour that people disapprove of, be...
allthenoons
May 7, 20216 min read
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Spoiler alert...the Bee Gees were wrong! It's not 'only words'...
Here are some phrases I’ve come across (and in some cases used) in my personal and professional life that I have for years found quietly...
allthenoons
Apr 29, 20216 min read
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Someone always has it worse!
As I was going about my business in work this week I came across a leaflet from the Canadian Red Cross (I know, in deepest...
allthenoons
Apr 14, 20214 min read
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If it doesn't kill us, does it really make us stronger?
As a counsellor, I get to hear a lot of philosophical catch-phrases. They often sum up how a person tries (and very, very often) fails to...
allthenoons
Apr 5, 20214 min read
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Beyond words - dyslexia in pictures - a window into the invisible
As I've written about previously, I believe passionately that Special Education Needs provision should include the opportunity to see...
allthenoons
Mar 29, 20213 min read
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Some thoughts on trees... and grieving
"Our grief is as individual as our lives." Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Occasionally, when I'm out walking in the woods, I come across a...
allthenoons
Mar 7, 20216 min read
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It feels like we've been here before!
Why do we argue more, and more deeply, with those who we are closest to? And why can we find it so hard to listen to the issues brought...
allthenoons
Feb 22, 20214 min read
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Forever young
"May your heart always be joyful, May your song always be sung, May you stay forever young" Bob Dylan I’ve written a lot about the mental...
allthenoons
Jan 31, 20213 min read
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'I find the nights long, for I sleep little' - some tips for better sleep
'I find the nights long, for I sleep little, and think much.' Charles Dickens,Bleak House I thought I’d pull together a few key messages...
allthenoons
Jan 28, 20214 min read
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The power of kindness
"Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind." —Henry James...
allthenoons
Jan 17, 20217 min read
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Covid and anxiety - going round in circles
Last year, the Lancet medical journal published research into incidence of anxiety during the first UK lockdown. Unsurprisingly, they...
allthenoons
Jan 9, 20216 min read
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Auld acquaintances, and new
Thank God for that! 2020 is done at last. I suspect just about everyone has asked or been asked ‘What have you missed this year?’ For me,...
allthenoons
Dec 31, 20202 min read
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Big or small, trauma still matters
According to the American Psychological Association (APA), trauma is ‘an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, rape or...
allthenoons
Dec 28, 20205 min read
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You can either focus on what’s pushing you apart, or what’s holding you together
There have been many studies into what makes people hold views that seem, to most of society, totally counter-intuitive. An American...
allthenoons
Dec 22, 20202 min read
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Labelling trauma: If you don't know what to call it, does it exist?
Four years ago The Lancet published an article with the undeniably catchy title ‘The mesentery: structure, function, and role in...
allthenoons
Dec 17, 20203 min read
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Providing for those affected by special needs
I've posted two short blogs I originally put on my Facebook page in early December. The second was written in response to a friend's...
allthenoons
Dec 9, 20204 min read
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Breaking the silence
This week a very sensitive topic was drawn into the spotlight when Meghan, Duchess of Sussex revealed details of her miscarriage in July....
allthenoons
Nov 29, 20203 min read
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